That is a massive question, and one that requires a carefully considered answer. Years before pregnancy, you’d probably have dreamt about different names for your pets and children. Whether you’re a man or a woman, you have names that you like and ones that you dislike.
The problem is indecisiveness, and that’s totally understandable when naming your new born because their name will be with them for life. So there’s a bit of pressure to make sure you’re totally one hundred percent happy with it, but this is totally normal and there’s so many different ways to find and choose the right name for your baby; here’s how:
Research
There are a plethora of baby books and websites out there, ready for anyone expecting a baby to get ideas for baby names. You may want to check for names that are more current and contemporary, if so then you should check online or ask your friends and family to determine the latest baby name trends.
On the other hand you may not want to choose the same name that everyone else is going for, just because it’s current. For example your child could turn up to school to see they are one of five Jordans or Dylans. Again you can search online for unusual and uncommon baby names, just to give you an idea.
Tradition
One way of choosing a name is to go along with tradition. For example if your middle name is the same name as your mother or fathers first name, then this tradition could be passed onto your children. That way you’ll find a suitable middle name for your child, whilst keeping it meaningful to your family.
This way could be used when deciding your child’s first name as well. For example, picking a name that you like in either your family or your partner’s family; whether that’s a sister, brother, mother, father, cousin, aunt or uncle. Conversely you may not like any existing family names and want to break away from tradition; again it’s entirely your choice.
Find the Origins of names
Another way of establishing a baby name is to understand what the name means and where it gets its origins from. If you’re particularly religious or spiritual this is a great way to pass on your beliefs to your children. Likewise if you’re from a particular heritage or culture, you may want to choose a name that is more meaningful to you, your beliefs or culture.
Finding the meaning of a name first can really help too. So say if there is a particular meaning that you are fond of, then you can choose the name accordingly. Again you can find the meaning of names in any good baby name book or well established and trusted website.
Favourite Person
If there is a special someone that you admire and like or if you’re a fan of then this is another way to pick a baby name. We’ve already touched on using existing family names, but it doesn’t have to stop there. If you’re particularly fond of someone, whether it’s a best friend, a sports star, film star or musician, then this may help when deciding on a name.
It’s your choice
Remember that when it comes to naming your baby, it’s yours and your partner’s decision. Whatever the type of name you choose, it’s important that you’re both totally one hundred percent happy with it. Take on board people’s suggestions by all means, research latest name trends, choose traditional names or existing family names, but make sure it’s what you want; otherwise you’ll regret the name you’ve chosen.
By: Vincent A Rogers
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